Where or what city is your new job located? Can you telecommute? Here's the deal. Greater Seattle-Tacoma-Everett is no fun anymore. Period. In the past three years 90 percent of folks coming here are from out of state. Seattle is considered a Gold Rush. I'm in in residential real estate and 95 percent of my clients are from out of state. Seattle leads North America, if not the world in prosperity and jobs. If the jobs went away, people would go elsewhere. Thanks to Mr. Jeff Bezos, Boeing, Microsoft, Google, Starbucks, Costco, Nordstrom, REI, Weyerhaeuser, ALABABA, and IT Startups. As a result, the traffic is absolutley a nightmare from 8AM to 8PM, almost seven days a week.
In terms of your question, it depends on where you job is located, and if you think you'll be there for life. If not, think hard about south King, Pierce, or Snohomish County, because the high paying competing jobs are in King County. You'll be in your car 3 hours a day if you buy too far south, or too far north, and then move to a different company. The only positive for the horizon is, light rail is coming.