I completely agree with what your outlining. The "Snowflake" movement is extreme and real.People are abused various ways in this society, no doubt. For those people I feel empathy and wish them the justice they deserve and the strength to move past it and live and fruitful, happy life.
However, we are living in a society that is in love with being victimized. News flash - victims make good copy. (get it, news flash? hahaha)
There was just a story of a lady who posted a video claiming she had been bullied, verbally abused and threatened by a white racist cop. It was 10 minutes of her crying, talking about being lynched, white people have no idea how it feels to be victimized constantly, etc.
The local police posted the body cam video. Their entire interaction was no more than 2 minutes total. He asked for her credentials, told her why he pulled her over, went back to the car and wrote the ticket, returned to the car, asked her to sign and she refused. He explained that it was mandatory for her to sign, its not an admission of guilt, and if she didn't he would be forced to remove her from the car, arrest her, and tow her car. She signed, he went back to his car and left.
She was ready to be a victim the minute she got pulled over.
She's not alone. Look at the outrage over stupid sh!t all over twitter and fb. Everywhere, everyone is a victim.
But to make an analogy between getting a ticket and someone feeling "victimized" and a woman that was choked and beaten until she called her boyfriend "master" while he called her, his "brown slave" is not a very good one. And 3 other separate women with similar violence stories with the same guy... I'd hope you'd recognize the massive leap you've made. This isn't some kid at Berkley crying because Ben Shapiro came to her school. It isn't a Burger King getting an order wrong and a 2 day rant takes over facebook.
4 women, with stories of domestic violence, manipulation, death threats (I don't even know what to call the concept of threatening to wire tap someones phone)... and for the most part, 4 women that haven't talked to each other. They just corroborated each others stories. This wasn't a unsolicited kiss that all the sudden blew up to "rape" in a woman's mind.
Should we be careful? Yeah, I probably came across stronger than I should have. There is an element of "Innocent until proven guilty". There needs to be legal balance. But that is where many times, the sad part is when these women wait, it means there is no physical "proof". So these guys will get off.
But man. Rapists, molesters, DV perps. I have zero... ZERO tolerance. And in this specific incident, for him to step down from his position after 3 hours of the story being out... wow.