I'm the same way. I remember being so pissed about this at the time. Now? Whatever.
At this point? Why not recognize the guy? He was a great player and made the NFL. WSU benefits by utilizing that. There is no benefit to acting like the guy didn't exist.
It's not like we have a list 10 pages long NFL alumni wanting to come back and stand on the sideline.
Right now, there is no reason to recognize him that I can think of (no halftime celebration for anything he accomplished, no bowl team reunion, etc.). I suppose he could be brought back to raise the flag, but that's all I can think of.
Wilson is free to travel to Pullman. I'm sure the AD will give him a sideline pass. I promise not to call him Marquitter or Marquessa from the cheap seats.