You guys really do not "get it" , and going way off topic about Christian value and David Duke, things that have ZERO to do with race and racial identity does not help advance your arguments.
Haven't seen the video about recipes, have seen the one where the interviewer talks about being Indian and she goes off on that, without mentioning being half black. Why not embrace what she really is? Pandering? Wouldn't it be less confusing to just go with the fact that she is of mixed race instead of passing herself off as one race one time and a different race another time? Maybe being more Asian in the Bay area helps and being black helps politically in a national race? How about just being accurate and be yourself and people will accept you as you are? When she attacked Biden on the debate stage she could just as easily and more accurately told her tale about being a little mixed race girl on that yellow bus that she loved so much.
And so many of don't give a shit at all what someone is as far as race or ethnicity, just don't try to blow smoke up our but and tell us things are not what they really are. It is the left that is obsessed with race and playing the race card at every opportunity.
I must assume that you meant to say that people like me should NOT be in the business to quantify or qualify who people are. Maybe that is true, maybe it isn't, but don't have folks like Rachel Dolezal try to tell us that she is black, and don't be telling us that someone with a penis is suddenly a girl/woman after taking some drugs for a year or two. We are just not going to buy into that kind of bullshit. You know, what with science and all that.
As far as your curve ball, I am afraid that it was actually a knuckleball that sailed way high and wide. You are again mixing up appearance with race. Some small change in the one ingredient is immaterial to the point. And looking like Beyonce (isn't she actually mixed race? I really don't know) does not mean that she should identify as black. I worked with a friend out in the pea fields in HS one summer, 12 hours a day in the sun. He started with like olive skin and wavy dark hair, by the end of the season he had dark curly heair and very dark skin. Nobody would have questioned him if he had told them he was black. Or most likely at that time it would have been Negro. But had he done so, it would have been a lie, he was still a white guy that had dark skin and dark hair.
And not that it matters much, but I have a good friend I used to work with that based on comments along the way may be Native American, but may be black. Or could be both, I don't know and it matters not. What matters is she is just a very neat PERSON, and I really enjoyed getting to work with her. Hard worker, unmarried mom of 2 kids that she supported herself, worked her way to bachelor's degree, then MBA. Great person that I am glad to call a friend, and I don't care whatever racial mix she is or is not, she is just a neat lady.
BTW, as a kid i recall hearing that that I might be 1/16th Indian, and my mom did have darkish skin and high cheekbones, certainly looking more "Indian" than Pocahontas Warren. I don't know if it is true or not, due to circumstances never knew that side of the family, but I guarantee I would never claim to be NA because of a possible small mix of that group. That would be deceptive, and that is not me. And I don't care for others that do such things. We are what we are, just accept that, love yourself, and go through life as best you can.
Edit: BTW, how does your daughter identify? Perhaps as Beyonce's twin?
And, while razzing or arguing with you over things, I have no doubt that you are a good dad and your daughter's ARE lucky to have you.