I have a close relative who is:
Toxic and horribly dysfunctional with all family members.
Criticizes every single family member, constantly.
Does not act in love.
Does not honor any person's own way.
Does not show respect.
Does not listen to anyone.
Is completely miserable.
Has all the money, and is very, very unhappy. Does give and is generous, though.
Lost her son and husband.
Has bitterness in her heart.
Is unwilling to forgive.
Has genuine evil in her heart. Not violent evil....just doesn't love other people.
Bottom line, we can't change anyone.
You can't change people.
Just ignore, and don't feed anyone, because it won't work and they won't change, until they're ready to be transformed.